Tuesday, July 12, 2011
Is it possible to survive the affair?
Hi, my husband and I have been married for 2 years now. We are a young couple. I love him with all of my heart, and I had always thought that he did too, but I have recently discovered that he had been cheating on me. He wasn't having se, but had kissed 5 different girls, got a bj from one twice, and fingered 3 of them. The worst part is, my instinct was telling me something was going on, but I ignored it and believed his lie(saying he was faithful). I found out by seeing a message he sent to one, and called him out on it it yet he STILL denied it. Finally, the truth came out and he was busted. I wasn't aware of any others, but he spilled everything and let me contact the women to see if what he said was true. It was. We split up(not divorced) for a while but we realized we just couldn't live without each other. I want to be with him, but I don't know how to get over this. Is it possible? He constantly reassures me and is so supportive even though I am extremely bitter towards him. He said that he did always love me, but wanted the life of a player and a married man. He says he realizes he only wants me, forever. An will never ever go back to that. I believe that he's telling the truth, but the possibility of it being a lie terrifies me because I cannot go through all of that pain again. So is it possible to move past such a painful experience? Can we make this work? Any experiences or guidelines are greatly appreciated. Thank you and God bless
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